Saturday 18 June 2016

P.S I Love You





This post is dedicated to the strength, love and support of the two most important women in my life. The loves of my life. My women my everything.

I took a moment recently to reflex and re-evaluate my life and my support system and its true what they say when you count your blessing you will be amazed to see what you really have.


I have two driving forces in my life that are constantly and undoubtable always pushing me to do and be great and those two un stoppable forces are my mom and my older sister.

Soul sister and then some. 

My older sister is without a doubt is my best friend, recently (well not so recently almost 4 years now) she moved over to the UK. Although when she was living Ireland we didn't see each other often but there was a certain comfort attached to knowing that she was around, so when she moved it goes without saying it shook me up a bit but I was happy for her cause she was chasing her dream. My older sister is what you would call "A go getter" She has always been someone I looked up to. When she's faced with any obstacle or adversity she faces it head on and always comes out on top. Her strength is remarkable and inspiring the older I get the more I fall in love with her. She is such a strong Independent young black women who is unapologetically her self and I aspire to have that strength and beauty both externally and internally.



Mom I adore you 

My mother is one of the most honest and frank speakers you may ever possibly come to meet. Growing up this was both a good and a bad thing, cause she really had no filter. I feel that this is were I get my passion for words from. Words cannot begin to describe my appreciation and love for her.  The one person that stood by me through all of life storms. "It takes someone strong to make someone strong".  Everything good about me came from my mom. If I can be half the mother that she is one day I would consider Motherhood a success.
Mother daughter relationship, I feel are sometimes the most complicated for many reasons but one day you'll realise that your mom was the best friend you never knew you had. For me, that day has come.



Its unfortunate that ever so often we don't know the value that people hold in our lives till they are gone.
 "you don't know what we have till its gone "

and I must admit I contribute to the realism of that statement.

So I wanted to take this time out just to acknowledge, the two pillars in my life.
I encourage you to use this time to tell someone how much they mean to you. I'm sure they knew you care but when was the last time you told them.




Outfit Deetales :

Dress : Missguided 

similar ones:

Shoes : primark (4 years ago)

xoxo
B.

22 comments

  1. I loveeeeeeeeeeeee this outfit! and you hair is so cute!

    Have a great day!
    xoSE
    http://www.sashaelizabeth.com/

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  2. Totally agree that with that quote, we should appreciate what we have and act accordingly! Your sister did the best thing, following her dreams and working towards it, at least when you know that she is happy, it will make you happy too!

    Ela BellaWorld

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  4. Loving the whole look

    http://www.sincerelymissj.com/

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  5. So cute of you to dedicate this post to your mum and sister! Love this dress, might get something similar for myself!

    http://skylish.co.uk

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    1. thank you hun , you should I love this dress so much x

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  6. Beautiful post!
    Xo
    Jeanie
    www.thefashionlotus.com

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  7. This is such a sweet post, dear! My mom and brother are my biggest supporters and friends too!! There's nothing like family! Same with my husband and son -- I consider them my best friends too! I think it's important to be close to your family! You are so beautiful and I'm SO glad that you are close to your sis and mom!
    I hope your day is as beautiful as you are!
    xoxo, Vanessa
    www.WhatWouldVWear.com

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    1. Aww V Thank you so much, Im happy to hear you a a great support system and are surrounded by people who care for you. Really appreciate this comment. xoxo

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  8. You look gorgeous and I love this post. Your mother and sister sound like incredible human beings and you are so lucky to have them in your life :) x

    -Leta | The Nerdy Me

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    1. Thanks hun, they really are I'm blessed to have them x

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  9. Hey Bukky.This dress is amazing. I love such posts. Many are the times we forget to let the people who matter in our lives, how much we appreciate them. Absolutely beautiful.x

    www.stephylately.com

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    1. Thank you darling
      Your too sweet, Ye life it's to short and we always live it in a rush unfortunately. X

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  10. I am so glad for you having a close and wonderful relationship with your mom and sister. Miles are not important where there's true love and it's very important to be thankful and cherish the love we feel with our beloved ones, friends or family! Very inspiring <3
    Stella
    www.stellaasteria.com

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